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Remember me?

KoDoRiN

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Yo, shoutouts to anyone that remembers me all these years ago LOL. 

 

It's been awhile, or rather sup to those that have heard of me for the first time. I hope BP.TF has been flourishing well and that the newer generations have been outclassing the old guards like me. I just felt like posting random things that I have been reminiscing about. 

 

I'm not sure if the demographics really changed much in this website, but I remember back when I around, fairly good amount of people were in their high school years or below 18.  I and probably many others that were top contributors had so much free times in our hands that we would spend absurd amounts of time on arguing over prices of a few pixels. Idk if I reflected my maturity during my years of activity, but I definitely was still in high school at my prime. I remember wanting to be a mod so badly, but I couldn't for awhile because I wasn't old enough. In fact even when I retired, I actually still wasn't old enough to be a mod. Now I am, but damn there were some things...that I quite don't know what to express.

 

First off, maturity. I was told that I was pretty mature for how I expressed things, but upon further evaluation, I definitely had holes. While I addressed many things in a professional and a matter-of-fact way, I definitely got provoked easily. If I felt like I got attacked or got emotional, then I wouldn't hesitate venting or saying some things that I regret. Restraint is definitely a skill that potentially gets easier as you age, and that has definitely applied to me. I cringe at some things I said as a result of certain things, but at the end of the day I do appreciate all the warnings cleverpun has given me as a learning lesson. Is cleverpun still around? Clever was such a good mod in retrospect heh.

 

Another thing was that overall, I was a quantity over quality guy in making suggestions. Ok sure, I actually put some effort for my quantity unlike some people (d0 and Pyroman comes to mind, are those guys still around and pop some names? Or am I old?), but at the end of day, they were just quantity suggestions that quite frankly didn't require much extensive effort. Sure I was the first suggestor to achieve black belt status when they decided to implement that, but at the end of the day looking back at my achievements, all those hundreds of hollow suggestions are next to meaningless to me. While I did hold the #1 Top Contributors part for a little while, it's not really that great of a feeling when majority of those votes came from blind votes and superfluous suggestions. The suggestions that really do mean a lot to me though are the ones where I put in hours into crafting and thought into. The ones that come immediately to mind was when I suggested to change the Loose Cannon to a scrap price range when I was merely an orange belt, which was an incredibly ballsy and an unheard proposal to do when it was universally accepted that all weapons are only worth .05. https://backpack.tf/suggestion/52153a974bd7b8171200000b

 

Suggestions like these resonate with me the most. I went against the conventional wisdom and trends because I wanted to do what I felt was right. It encouraged me to think outside the box and make sure my argument wasn't bullshit or else people would rip me apart. And when my extremely hard work got accepted, I really felt like I accomplished something. Suggestions I did like these, doing key suggestions when shit was really vitriolic and dealing with hate (damn keys are worth 27 ref+? Are they gonna be 50 ref when I come back a year later?), and doing suggestions on all unusual variants of the Fez are my proudest accomplishments. They made me learn things and actually contributed to the site the most even though the contribution points or whatever don't really properly reflect that. I don't remember my suggestion trains like when the latest halloween items were dropping in value or when they required little thought, but suggestions that required hard work and critical thinking are something I recommend every prospective suggestor to do more often. To me at least, they're the most fulfilling.

 

I guess the biggest thing I would like to highlight though is towards the end of my prime years. I'll just say it out there right here in the open since I honestly have little issues expressing this: I was dealing with pretty bad depression at the time. I will not go into details as to how it occurred, but if you just looked at how I phrased things towards the end of 2014 and some of my blogs, it's pretty obvious that I was just really sad and tired. With things that were going on IRL that transpired through my contributions, I complained and was pessimistic more often than not. I attributed part of my depression to little enjoyment towards suggesting so I announced my retirement. That clearly didn't actually help, and if anything it made my depression worse as the years went on. I went on to have suicidal thoughts and being afraid of my future. I was extremely vulnerable and self-deprecating. I was pathetic, which I thought of myself all the time before. Soon though, I ended up getting some help, and I was doing things that slowly but surely got me out of depression. I started addressing the root of my problems. I started meditating to get me to think clearly. I started to eat better and exercise once in awhile. I started smiling more. After a year of getting out of my hole, I was pretty much out of the woods, and I'm so grateful to be out of that state of mind. To all of you currently struggling, try to find someone that will support you. Try to find motivation in one thing that you find dear to you and cling onto it as your reason to keep going. If you don't have that one motivation, make something your one motivation. Set goals. Meditate to have a clearer state of mind. Address the root of your problem and resolve it. Things WILL get better if you address it in due time as it did for me. Perhaps y'all should go outside for a little while and get some Vitamin D, since I know you probably spend a little too much time on the computer than we should. Depression isn't a simple topic and everyone has their own problems, so I'll leave it as that, but I will say to those that are struggling: why not start now to get better?

 

Welp, I guess that's the most I have in my mind right now. If you're wondering why I don't return to the main site or really hang around here that often, it's because my interest has long past TF2, suggesting, and trading. The fire in me is long, long gone, and TF2 is incredibly stale to me. I tried coming back when my depression has significantly subsided, but my heart really wasn't in it. Nah, most of my current interests are stuff I'm doing in college and Melee, so coming back here in my prime days is pretty much out of the question. It's a bit sad that I'll never be able to come back to my peak, but the memories of my experience is still there, and I'll probably check back here every once in awhile to see what's new and old. Feel free to comment and asking me whatever and I might come back in an appropriate timely matter to answer, but yeah that's what's up to me.



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cleverpun retired

d0 is marked on steamrep

pyroman visits us sometimes

 

im glad you managed to find a way in life and im looking forward to blindvote more of your suggestions)))

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Saw your tag in some Smash.gg brackets and thought "hey, that sounds familiar... is that really...?"

I guess it actually is. Grats on taking a game off MikeHaze at the last SSS. You could be MIOM top 100 and top 100 on our contributor list at the same time someday.

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Yooooo!

I'm after your time, but you were a legend! I'm really sorry to hear about your depression, but at the same time really inspired by how you have been pushing through it. I'm no professional, but you're welcome to message me anytime. A lot of oldies like Erik and Gent are still around, but a lot of the older oldies became mods(mindacos, Randy, etc.).  We've also got a few new folks whose suggestions slap, but that's basically what's been going on with the people here.

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Hey, long time no see.

I don't really have much to say, but it's great to hear you're in a better place now, even if you weren't when you left. Best of luck to you in the future, with college and Melee and whatever else you have planned~

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On 5/28/2018 at 8:18 AM, rafiozol said:

cleverpun retired

d0 is marked on steamrep

pyroman visits us sometimes

 

im glad you managed to find a way in life and im looking forward to blindvote more of your suggestions)))

Welp.

 

Thanks! Also unfortunately, I don't think you can blindvote my suggestions since I'm probably not gonna make any in the first place. :c

 

On 5/28/2018 at 8:23 AM, Marty Birdman said:

Saw your tag in some Smash.gg brackets and thought "hey, that sounds familiar... is that really...?"

I guess it actually is. Grats on taking a game off MikeHaze at the last SSS. You could be MIOM top 100 and top 100 on our contributor list at the same time someday.

Yup that's me! I'm also that guy that posts a lot in the PP boards too heh. How active are you in the Melee scene?

 

Yup, that's my long-term goal one day. In my locals, I have taken a Bo5 set off Squid and Captain Faceroll and multiple SoCal PR wins. See me at the SoCal Arcadian!

 

On 5/28/2018 at 1:18 PM, FishtheFish said:

Yooooo!

I'm after your time, but you were a legend! I'm really sorry to hear about your depression, but at the same time really inspired by how you have been pushing through it. I'm no professional, but you're welcome to message me anytime. A lot of oldies like Erik and Gent are still around, but a lot of the older oldies became mods(mindacos, Randy, etc.).  We've also got a few new folks whose suggestions slap, but that's basically what's been going on with the people here.

Yo,

Yeah my depression is long gone after a year of addressing and treating it, but I appreciate your gesture! It's good to see the newer generations taking care of the site, but care to explain what happened to the older staff? Tbh, I'm so surprised Puddington is still around after all those years lol.

 

On 5/28/2018 at 2:58 PM, Weedoof said:

Hey, long time no see.

I don't really have much to say, but it's great to hear you're in a better place now, even if you weren't when you left. Best of luck to you in the future, with college and Melee and whatever else you have planned~

Thanks! I hope you're doing well in whatever you're doing~

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Yeah, can do! Cleverpun and polar both stepped down, and then bucket + aaroncsn both no longer work here either because of inactivity.

Among the newest hires now are: Carnage, mindacos, myself, K1ng, Marty Birdman, Blaze, sin, Lemons, and Smokey. sin + lemons are community mods, carnage + smokey are reports, birdman is a report/price hybrid, and everyone else is in pricing

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I haven't gone to a tournament in ~3 years, and I was mainly entering for PM when I did. Anyone who ever lost to me in a melee bracket has no excuse - my Marth is (and always has been) wack. :P I work nights now and commit most of my free time to backpack.tf, so I don't really play Smash much anymore. You and I kind of traded hobbies, I think.

I keep an eye on competitive smash for the fun of it though. If your Arcadian is streaming, which I assume it is, I'll check it out.

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GGs on 9th - your second kill on Redpandamaster in game 1 was fucking sick.

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Heh, yeah. I'm disappointed that I couldn't play better, as I have beaten redpandamaster before in other encounters, but this was the rowdiest crowd I ever had to deal with. I couldn't really handle it anymore for the 5th time in succession and played seriously below standards. Expect better plays from me in the future, and thanks for the support! 

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It happens - I remember the first time I ever played a match on Stream I felt like I had eyes on me (probably didn't tbh), and I lost to someone I should generally have beaten. Can't prepare for the feeling of a crowd behind you easily, but the better you get you'll keep finding yourself making deep runs and being in those situations, and it'll help you get used to it. I think any deep run at a large-scale tournament in Cali is pretty impressive - hella deep melee talent where you live. I'll be watching for you to top it either way!

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