Explosion-chan Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 I'm currently dating a girl and we both like each other a lot. We're actively going on dates, and it's basically exclusive, but neither of us consider it to be "in a relationship." Stuff with her ex made her not ready for another relationship yet, but she does say she likes me a lot. Would it be accurate to say we're "dating?" Most people consider that to be in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpai Absol~ Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 I would consider it one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CourtneyWendysCommercials Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 that is a relationship. it's extremely suspicious if she doesn't consider it one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Explosion-chan Posted May 24, 2015 Author Share Posted May 24, 2015 that is a relationship. it's extremely suspicious if she doesn't consider it one. She actually has a really good reason, if you wanna know, I can PM it, but I don't just wanna share it out here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators Teeny Tiny Cat Posted May 24, 2015 Administrators Share Posted May 24, 2015 I mean technically anyone you interact with you have a relationship with. Friends, family, etc. I know you're not really asking that, but we can't define what kind of relationship you have for you... that's for you and her to do. If you're not sure, then communicate with her. If you're just asking what to call it then... who cares? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
w0lk Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 Sex = relationship You must enter your girl to claim her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jus Ign@nt Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 When you say 'basically exclusive' does that mean there's a slight chance it's not exclusive? What makes both of you consider it not 'a relationship' or you just saying it because that's what she wants to hear? I would consider anyone that is exclusively dating to be in a relationship otherwise say you're 'hanging' out with a friend instead of going on a 'date'. Nah' mean? Sorry I've been married and with the same girl / woman for 15+ years now so my view on reality isn't what it once was, GOD help me. I live vicariously through you youths now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0night Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 that is a relationship. it's extremely suspicious if she doesn't consider it one. it's absolutely not "suspicious" at all. at worst it's unclear; there's no need or rationale for jumping straight to suspicion or assume that they have bad intentions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgsfds Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 it's absolutely not "suspicious" at all. at worst it's unclear; there's no need or rationale for jumping straight to suspicion or assume that they have bad intentions youll learn over time its perfectly good reason for suspicion. OP, I'd say you're technically dating. but since she's being a douche and saying you're not, I'd say for now you're just her ATM, where she puts in feelings and receives out money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♛ AlphaOmega ♛ Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 Yea thats a relationship and dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyperqube Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 > We're actively going on dates, > Would it be accurate to say we're "dating?"yes. > Most people consider that to be in a relationship. being in a relationship means different things to different people. Perhaps it would be better to acknowledge what you have opposite to trying to label it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitteh #Everybodys Friend Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 "I'm currently dating a girl" Yes. You are dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CourtneyWendysCommercials Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 She actually has a really good reason, if you wanna know, I can PM it, but I don't just wanna share it out here. i'm curious now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CUD Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 i'm curious now. I'm even more curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CourtneyWendysCommercials Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 still an immature excuse tbh. never stunt your boyfriend, just because your past isn't the greatest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heated Bread Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 If it were me, I'd break up with her because it sounds like she's making excuses to remain free of commitment in case she does something that ordinarily would make her the badguy. That's just what it sounds like to me. Doesn't mean it's true. If you're not interested in being in a relationship with her, then I guess it's not a big deal. If you are, then you're likely going to get hurt. You could even get hurt if you don't even like her that much. It's happened to me. Rejection feels pretty bad, even if you didn't even care that much for the person in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaoticly Posted May 28, 2015 Share Posted May 28, 2015 Right now I'm in this strange relationship right now that's kinda similar to yours. She has me and a bf, but she considers to be a 'side chick'. It's not fun being in that position and I'm seriously thinking of ending it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CUD Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 Right now I'm in this strange relationship right now that's kinda similar to yours. She has me and a bf, but she considers to be a 'side chick'. It's not fun being in that position and I'm seriously thinking of ending it. She considers you a side chick or what? Does the bf know or is she cheating on him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaoticly Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 She considers you a side chick or what? Does the bf know or is she cheating on him? No, her bf doesn't know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalkaria Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 I'm currently dating a girl and we both like each other a lot. We're actively going on dates, and it's basically exclusive, but neither of us consider it to be "in a relationship." Stuff with her ex made her not ready for another relationship yet, but she does say she likes me a lot. Would it be accurate to say we're "dating?" Most people consider that to be in a relationship. I think you answered your own question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CUD Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 No, her bf doesn't know End it and let her bf know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Quixote Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 Based off of the information you've given it's quite clear that you're "dating". From how I've heard people define a relationship, it is often considered a relationship after you've dated a while and you are both very comfortable with each other. So, you aren't necessarily in a "relationship" yet, though it is on the horizon. Though I think you should stop worrying about the terminology and be glad you have someone special. If you aren't sure what the terms of your relationship are, just ask her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaoticly Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 End it and let her bf know. I couldn't do that to her, no... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N!K Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 Right now I'm in this strange relationship right now that's kinda similar to yours. She has me and a bf, but she considers to be a 'side chick'. It's not fun being in that position and I'm seriously thinking of ending it. No, her bf doesn't know I couldn't do that to her, no... In the end, Someone in your triangle is going to get very hurt. The longer you continue, the harder it's going to be. Think harder, and end it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaoticly Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 In the end, Someone in your triangle is going to get very hurt. The longer you continue, the harder it's going to be. Think harder, and end it. Wow, that is actually a very nice quote.... I think I'll but this on my profile Its there now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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